Cure NF for Kaitlyn: 2025

Thursday, September 25, 2025

Midsouth Balloon festival

One of our favorite events of the year. Although hot, great memories and fun.

Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Dreamnight at the Memphis Zoo

So grateful for the special needs opportunities we get to share with family and friends!

2025 VBS

VBS at St. Patrick's Presbyterian Church

VBS at Highland Church

2025 Eureka Springs VW car show and camping vacation!

This year we decided to take the camper and make a vacation out of going to Eureka Springs for the annual VW show. So much fun!We love spending time with the Midsouth VW Club!

Dixon Gallery Down Syndrome Association of Memphis Art night

We are so blessed to have such a variety of special needs opportunities in our community!

Memphis Disability Network Praise Nights and Joy Cafe

Joy Life Cafe offers an opportunity for our young adults to learn how to service for the community while having fun!

What a great way to feel close to God. Thank you Christ Church for giving us the opportunity to enjoy God's love through music and friends.

2025 Tiger Tour

We love hanging out with our BONUS families Ann's our favorite Memphis Tigers coaches!

NF Tennessee annual picnic

It was a beautiful day to meet new NF friends with our favorite doctor.

Tuesday, May 6, 2025

Baby Doll Therapy

Those that know Kaitlyn Barnette, know that she had always loved baby dolls. She was gifted a Real Care doll (like the ones the schools use) a few years ago. Her doll's name is Lilly.

After aging out of high school she hopes to find a job as teacher assistant, but that's easier said than done, especially when trying too maintain SSI services. She loves helping people.

Kaitlyn got this idea.... to take her doll to retirement communities so the people there could enjoy Lilly as much as she does. Kaitlyn started making calls and met Miss Judi at the Villages in Germantown. They have worked together with the help of Lori Gresham (Kaitlyn's aide) to create a monthly visit for Baby Doll Therapy with the memory care guests. It has filled Kaitlyn with Joy, pride and a sense of purpose to visit these new friends with Lilly. The ladies are enjoying Lilly so much that Kaitlyn used her money for a baby boy to bring. Johnny Roy was debuted today during the Villages of Germantown Volunteer appreciation event where Kaitlyn was presented with award for giving her time and sharing her dolls with the community.

So proud of Kaitlyn thinking outside of the box to give back to the community and spread JOY.

Why this blog was created...

This blog was created so that Kaitlyn's family and friends can keep up with her doctors and other events in her life. It was also created for those parents that have questions and are still at the frightening stage of learning about NF. When you first hear about your child having NF, it is so scary....all of the questions and concerns that go through a parents head is overwelming. I'm hoping this blog helps people understand more about NF. I write it in simple terms because it makes it easier to understand and explain. All of those formal terms and high tech words start to sound like another language. So I have simpified it so that kids and parents can relate to what is going on. My number one mission is to spread the awareness of neurofibromatosis to those families that have it and don't know it. I can't imagine learning about this when "it's too late".

Medical history

Kaitlyn was diagnosed with NF1 at six months of age. She was a full-term pregnancy with little complications. At birth she was put into ICU for a few hours due to breathing difficulty. Immediately during her first days, Kaitlyn was very fussy. It became clear she was having bowel problems. She was taken to doctors and treated for stomach issues. She was then sent to a genetics specialist because of a café au lait spot on her stomach. More and more “Katy-bug” spots started to appear as she got older, along with freckling under arms, hair on her lower back, posture issues etc. It was quickly suspected that she had NF. A DNA blood test confirmed that she indeed had “deleted chromosome 17” neurofibromatosis type 1. We were told her life expectancy was 9 years and she wouldn’t be able to learn past the ranking of a few years old. A bone scan was done which revealed a lesion on the left side of her scull between her eye and ear. She then started getting MRIs done regularly. Each MRI showed more lesions. As of 2020, she has 5 lesions inside of brain, one outside her skull, one between skull and scalp, one in her hip, one on her lung, around her ribs and in her arms…that we know of. During the last couple of years, hundreds of neurofibromas have developed on the outside of her body causing difficulty and pain in joint areas. The lesions in her brain push on nerves and have caused uncontrolled emotions, difficulty understanding, memory problems, night terrors, seizures etc. Luckily, she appears to have outgrown her epilepsy. Her last seizure was May 2012. In April of 2015 she had a 6x9cm tumor removed from the back of her head between the scalp and the skull. It has since grown back but not as big as the original. The tumors in her arms cause pain while using hands. She also has an uncountable number of neurofibromas through the trunk of her body. These tumors cause debilitating pain. She is now a patient of an adult pain clinic in addition to ENT, eye specialist, neurosurgeon, neuropsychologist, and genetics specialist at University of Tennessee plus pediatrician and orthopedics doctors. She has recently discovered acupuncture is a big help to relieve some her daily pain.

Therapies and education

Kaitlyn started therapies before she was one year of age. During age 2 to 3 years of age she attended a local special needs school, that specialized in learning disabilities in children up to age 3. Through grade school to high school, she received special, physical therapy, occupational therapy and resource classes. Now in high school, she is in all special education classes focusing on job skills, self-care tasks, cooking and home chores. Her IEP team work together to give her the best education possible to prepare her for the world. She can learn but it needs to be done by repetition and extra time. She is approximately at the 4th grade level compared to typical peers. Part of the special needs diploma she is working towards allows her to intern at local businesses to learn hands on job skills. She is being trained to be a teacher’s assistant in the local middle school. Her dream job is helping others like her in the school setting. She earned an occupational diploma in spring 2021. She continues to attend high school to focus on her job skills in hopes of having a job when she ages out of school. Kaitlyn knows God made her different and does her best to enjoy every day to the fullest. She is very active in the special needs community…2 different cheer teams, dance team, baseball, self-defense class, multiple proms and many other special needs events provided by our hometown and local churches. She has out learned and out lived way pass the doctor’s expectations. We know every day with Kaitlyn is a blessing!